Category: Advice

Dr Spock

Who was Dr.Spock ?

Benjamin McLane Spock (May 2, 1903 – March 15, 1998) was an American pediatrician whose book Baby and Child Care, published in 1946, is one of the biggest best-sellers of all time. Its revolutionary message to mothers was that “you know more than you think you do.”


Advice From Dr Spock

1.“Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.”

2.“I would say that the surest measure of a man’s or a woman’s maturity is the harmony, style, joy, and dignity he creates in his marriage, and the pleasure and inspiration he provides for his spouse” read more

3 tips to help you become a high impact father

The Wall Street Journal via Google news has a great article on how father can be come more involved at home.

Tips include:

1. Playing with children:
Research has shown the fathers who play with their children contribute to their children’s cognitive development.

2.Pay attention to individual children’s needs and passions.
If one of your child likes to read and discuss, then make time for them. If another child likes to spend time outdoors, then you have to make time for them as well.

3.Take good care of your marriage. read more

Twenty, perhaps 25 years

A friend of mine sent me the short story below that I felt that I had to share with you.

A boat docked in a tiny village. A tourist complimented a fisherman on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took him to catch them.

“Not very long,” answered the fisherman.

“But then, why didn’t you stay out longer and catch more?” asked the

The fisherman explained that his small catch was sufficient to meet his
needs and those of his family.

The tourist asked, “But what do you do with the rest of your time?” read more

10 ways to make your kids hate you

1.Ignoring them:

We are some busy with our jobs,friends, education, and ourself. When was the last time we spent time being busy with our children and family. Yes, we sometimes have to work late ,but I am sure that their are thing in our live we could give up that will enable us to spend more time with our children. They simply need us to be around and listen to them. When was the last time you sat down with you kids and found out how their day was ?

2.Screaming :

We sometimes have to change the tone of our voice to discipline our children but
that should only be sometimes. Some parents yell at their kids too loud and too often.
Our children will become scared of us instead of loving us. Everything has to be done in moderation. read more

Stealing and Children

Today, I saw something very shocking .I guess this problem exist, but we don’t see it often or we just ignore it.

I was doing my laundry today in the laundry mart when a teenager stole $5 from the lady that was working in the laundry mart.The teenager went to the lady and ask her to buy a water, she had to leave the area she was working to get the water.On the table where she was working, she mistakenly left a $5 there,and he picked it up and put it in his pocket..

At the same time, he saw me watching him .When the lady returned with the water, he gave the $5 back to her and told her that he found it on the floor.From the look on the lady’s face she didn’t believe him.When he walked past me with his water,and he told me that he gave the money back to her.I felt very sorry for him because it seems he has problem.I decided to write about it and give some tips on how to react to this problems if we encounter it.

Why kids steal
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5 Tips on surviving on one income

1. Buy grocery whenever its on sale,because its half price.For example,I bought Breyers ice cream this week for $2 the regular price is $6.

2.Always buy clothes whenever the season is out its so much cheaper.For Example, I always shop at Old Navy whenever the have end of season clearance sale and I kept it for next year.

3. I always check on the Internet for free samples.Your should check out wal-mart they have tons of free samples.

4. Shop online.Amazon is the best so check out their deals and shipping is free $25 purchase. read more